Saturday, March 19, 2016

Life Outside the Frame

Most of the things you made for me—blanket-
chest, lapdesk, the armless rocker—I gave
away to friends who could use them and not
be reminded of the hours lost there,
not having been witness to those designs,
the tedious finishes. But I did keep
the mirror, perhaps because like all mirrors,
most of these years it has been invisible,
part of the wall, or defined by reflection—
safe—because reflection, after all, does change.
I hung it here in the front, dark hallway
of this house you will never see, so that
it might magnify the meager light,
become a lesser, backward window. No one
pauses long before it. But this morning,
as I put on my overcoat, then straightened
my hair, I saw outside my face its frame
you made for me, admiring for the first
time the way the cherry you cut and planed
yourself had darkened, just as you said it would.
- Claudia Emerson, "Frame, An Epistle"

12 comments:

Jen said...

I enjoyed the video.

Life outside the frame...

my first thought was, this is the part of life that we don't show people. It's the part that I haven't talked about for ...a couple of months now.

Titan Uranus 2 said...

Funny how we frame ourselves...

Titan Uranus 2 said...

...to keep from looking too closely inside.

Jen said...

Indeed. My daughter has been in the hospital for 6 weeks, and I am having a hard time with it.

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Joe Conservative said...

Diabetes related? My DiL is Type 1. She ends up dealing with lots of related health issues as a result.

Joe Conservative said...

Hope she gets better, soon!

Jen said...

Yes, it's t1d related. What does your dil deal with, if you don't mind telling me.

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-FJ the Dangerous and Extreme MAGA Jew said...

She's actually a pretty up-beat and remarkable girl. She watches her diet, mostly, but also stays on top of her blood-sugar levels. After meals I often see her medicating, but it's usually because we're in a restaurant having some family affair.

She has had several trips to the hospital in the past three years though.... the longest was for a week. It doesn't seem to get her down, though. :)

Jen said...

I'm glad to hear that it doesn't get her down!

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